I am a 45 year old divorced single mother
dating a 44 year old divorced man. We have been dating for almost 2
years now and we are committed to each other. I love everything about
this man and I know that he loves me.
Lately we have talked about marriage and combining our households. Our
relationship is perfect in almost every aspect.but one. I am hesitant to
move forward with living together or marriage because of this one
reason. My man absolutely hates the way I dress. He believes I dress too
sexy and I dress this way to get attention from men. He bases this
solely on the shape of my body. Just to give
you a visual I am 5'4,
157lbs and my measurements are 34-29-45. I have always been shapely with
big hips and a big butt. I often joke and say that after my head, my
butt got stuck in my mother's birth canal. For years I tried to
camouflage my curves to avoid attention. I would wear baggy clothes,
long flowy skirts and never show any skin. Right after I turned 40 I
learned to not care about what others think and focus on what makes me
happy. It took me a long time to get to this point mentally where I love
my curves, but I feel like he is trying to change me. he has no issues
with my sexy wardrobe as long as he is with me. He says its OK if he's
with me because he can protect me. I am respectful in the way I dress
and I carry myself like a lady. I tell him that it doesn't matter what I
wear I cannot hide my shape. It would be visual even in a mumu. I feel
that he should just trust me and accept the way I dress. This is the
only thing we ever argue about. How can I get him to accept and trust me
with my sexy wardrobe? From, Baby Got Back
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